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You see, if a woman is interested in just having fun, she’s not going to have a problem if you are with other women… it’s just that she doesn’t want to know about it. Also, you need to realize something else.
If you plan on sleeping with multiple women, then you also have to plan on giving your women the same freedom to enjoy other men. That’s just how it is guys. You can’t expect them to be monogamous if you don’t plan to be.
The time to have this discussion with women is up front, BEFORE you sleep with them. Why? Because if you have sex with a woman, and she’s under the impression that she’s sleeping with you in order to get closer to you so you two can start a relationship… and then you tell her that she’s one of many, oh boy… watch out.
If a woman feels like you deceived her into having sex with you, it will destroy your reputation, so make sure you proceed ethically and honestly.



Anyway, enough of the bad… on with the good. One really great thing about sleeping with several women at once is that it keeps your attitude as a seducer in the right place. What do I mean by that?
Well if you have several women who you’re banging, are you really going to tolerate any bullshit from any of them if one starts playing games? Of course not, and that will come through in your body language and communication.
I remember when I was dating 5 women at once. They all liked me SO much more than most my the 1 on 1 relationship girls did. Why? I think it’s because they knew that they were expendable, and that made them want to prove to me that they were the best choice for me to keep around.
It’s the strangest thing, but when women see that you are desired by other women, they will do the most unbelievable crap to keep you around. But on the other hand, if they think that you’re holding out just for them, and you start making yourself too available for them… they will walk all over you and assign a low value to your company.
Why a low value? Because you’re so easy to get ahold of and find. Suddenly you’re just an option that she can choose whenever she wants… like doing her laundry. On the other hand, if you are scarce, and she notices that other women are competing for your attention, she’ll get her ass in gear and work to keep you in her life.